Most of us live inside cultures that mistake appearing and having for being, which is the root of a lot of misery.

More thoughts on discernment and care.

How many generations of men and women have tilted their heads back and gazed in awe at the vastness and mystery of the night sky?

Setbacks and limitations are an inescapable feature of being human.

Thoughts on discernment and care. Plus some resources.

"All things are not shining, but all the shining things are."

While traveling through India, it occurred to me how many people have suffered or died to teach us what we know today.

The process of narrative creation, by which we situate ourselves in time and define various anchor events, is a kind of magical power.

Ambivalence is a useful experience to get to know more intimately.

Learning to transform the subtle ways we resist what is unfolding around us frees up a tremendous amount of personal energy.

Throughout the day, we move around in time. I wonder what a graph would look like that plotted "when you were" at 1-minute intervals throughout the day. What kinds of patterns might we see?

"Civilization is not inherited; it has to be learned and earned by each generation anew."

Without practice in this domain, most of us experience our internal conflicts as a continuous power struggle that plays out just below our conscious awareness, bubbling up in periodic spells of confusion, doubt or difficult emotion.

It takes courage to embrace your own idiosyncratic genius, and be free from image management.

The quality of our thinking is dependent upon the quality of other’s thinking that we absorb.

Efficient cycles of engagement support a satisfying life. Inefficiencies create challenges for us. Too much activation or engagement creates chronic stress, tension, and anxiousness. Too much inhibition or disengagement creates depression, emptiness, and collapse.

How do we stay engaged in our current cultural moment, while also recognizing the deeper forces of time and history?

Claiming our role in building a rich surround of relationship is a profound act of personal leadership that will enhance our lives for years to come.

We become as we are beheld.

How can we embrace ourselves in the face of "ugliness"?

I hope to maximize the number of life changing conversations I participate in.

Different situations call for different rhythms.

Does it ever occur to you that in each moment the entirety of the human experience is happening?

One practical consequence of being able to recognize the undifferentiated phenomenological continuum is that the pervasive sense of separateness and working against the world that many of us carry begins to dissolve.